Imposter Syndrome… Again
Imposter syndrome is a feeling that I have struggled with for a long time. I’ve talked about it here before. It's the feeling that I don't belong in my job, that I'm not good enough, and that at any moment, someone is going to realize that I'm just pretending to know what I'm doing. It's a constant battle in my head, and it's something that I have to actively work to overcome every day.
One of the biggest ways that imposter syndrome has impacted me is in my self-doubt. I constantly question my abilities and second-guess myself. I'm always looking for validation and reassurance from others, which can be exhausting. It's hard to make decisions, and I often feel paralyzed by the fear of making a mistake.
Another way imposter syndrome has affected me is in my perfectionism. I have a hard time accepting that it's okay to make mistakes, and I put a lot of pressure on myself to be perfect. I'm constantly striving for perfection, which can be exhausting and can lead to burnout.
Imposter syndrome has also had an impact on my relationships with other agents in the industry. I often feel like I have to prove myself to them and that I'm not good enough to be working with them. This has led to a lot of stress and anxiety, and it's something that I have to actively work to overcome.
Despite these struggles, I have come to realize that imposter syndrome is a common feeling and that many successful people have experienced it at some point in their careers. I try to remind myself that it's normal to have self-doubt, and to practice self-compassion. I allow myself grace and focus on getting 1% better every day. I also focus on my accomplishments and remind myself of my past successes, and surround myself with supportive people (my High Vibe Tribe) who can provide encouragement and help me keep things in perspective.
Imposter syndrome is a feeling that I have struggled with for a long time, but it's something that I'm working to overcome. By recognizing that this feeling is normal, practicing self-compassion, focusing on my accomplishments, and surrounding myself with supportive people, I'm working to overcome imposter syndrome and achieve my goals with greater confidence.
